Well, my dears, here are a few things that surprised me in the first few weeks.. So I am passing on my knowledge to you, in hopes you’ll feel a little more prepared, when the time comes.
4) If you’re breastfeeding, you might have to cut out certain foods from your diet, as baby may not like them. Abe wasn’t overly fond of when I drank milk, he got really gassy and upset. Strangely, I could have ice cream, milkshakes, and cheese – it was just straight milk he didn’t like.
7) Modestly flies out the window. After a couple of days of nurses and doctors and CNAs all up in your business, you won’t even care anymore. And if you do care? Well, that’s too bad and they’re going to check you out anyway. A favorite story of mine is when my friend came to visit while in the hospital. I was telling her my birth story (I had a c-section) and I literally had to restrain myself from whipping open my hospital gown to show her my incision. No, she would not like to see a new surgery incision, no matter where it was on my body. And no, she’d not like to see me naked, either.
8) Even if you think you know tired from pulling all-nighters during college…. The tired you experience is on a whole new level. You will be exhausted, emotional and close to tears most of the first two weeks. Just know that it will pass. The first two weeks (at least in my own experience) were the hardest. I promise you will feel (at least a little) more rested soon.
9) This might just be my experience… But I have achey joints, now! My knees especially can get so sore after sitting in Indian style, and sometimes they almost give out on my when going up and down stairs! So strange. But there you go – so is most of pregnancy and postpartum.
10) You will feel so many emotions those first couple of weeks. But the love you feel for your baby and your spouse are beyond words. It’s an amazing feeling.